Tasks required to do are making me snooze..
Trying to max the time I have with him on Tues and Wed til I exhaust my body. Not that we went out til midnights but I'm tired after a whole day.
Been feeling like a lost sheep whenever conflicts arise.. Major communication breakdown in my view. I can't talk peacefully cos I'll just link everything together. So much after they accumulate. (PieceOfAdvice: Never ever wait til it explode. Voice it out before it gets worse.)
I should have accepted the fact that outdoor companion with Friends overrides Girlfriend.
In his case.
He might not feel so cos he is not the one experiencing the inferiority and negligence.
No matter how many times I try sounding it to him, he just don't get it.
I don't wanna explain myself further.
The only thing I'll defend, he does love and care for me.
We all know that we should be contented. But contented with just these two is not going to work. "Bread vs. love" dilemma? And of course, the "Intention vs. Action" issue.
Havent you heard enough of "I intend to...", "I wanted to...", "I planned to..."
Yet they just don't do anything..do they? The 'BUT' word that follows every such sentence is so disappointing and frustrating. It simply piss you off.
Ok, I shall not elaborate further.
I'm currently waiting for my Mom to come home and we will be heading to the optics together cos I broke the 'nose bridge' thingy of the specs? xD
Yes, very chor lor. haha
Shall end off here..
Updates probably during weekends now since I'm pretty occupied with school requirements and attachments :(
Take care peeps (:
Replies:
Anon,
There are a few factors to consider when you think further about a relationship.
(works both ways for majority)
- Is the guy able to attend to my emotional needs?
Is he able to communicate with me? (Being tgt doesnt mean no comm. breakdowns but whether is it frequent or not)
- Is he ready to settle down from all the "plays"
- Is he ready to start a family too?
Is he ready to assume greater responsibility (breadwinner/father)
- Is he financially capable? (stability wise, I think 1 bomb everything's gone)
- Is finding a job or switching jobs easy for him (shit happens)
- Does he know how to calculate? (Not stingy ut savings is a MUST once u start having an income)
The above question roughly sound out what's concerning me..
Kinda inter-related and links..
There are a few factors to consider when you think further about a relationship.
(works both ways for majority)
- Is the guy able to attend to my emotional needs?
Is he able to communicate with me? (Being tgt doesnt mean no comm. breakdowns but whether is it frequent or not)
- Is he ready to settle down from all the "plays"
- Is he ready to start a family too?
Is he ready to assume greater responsibility (breadwinner/father)
- Is he financially capable? (stability wise, I think 1 bomb everything's gone)
- Is finding a job or switching jobs easy for him (shit happens)
- Does he know how to calculate? (Not stingy ut savings is a MUST once u start having an income)
The above question roughly sound out what's concerning me..
Kinda inter-related and links..
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